Sunday, February 24, 2013
Here are Bella's picks for Easter. This is a lovely Easter Dress found on the FrostMeBaby.com website blog. She aslo found this adorable Easter Basket to complement her dress, and join her in the hunt for Easter Eggs. Very cute... and she is so excited for Easter to get here!
Posted by Kat Johnson at 1:23 PM
Saturday, February 23, 2013
Easter is coming quickly, and the trees are beginning to bloom outside! Spring is almost here!
All the stores have their spring lines coming in, and I LOVE all of the color and excitement. She is soooo excited that she has already found her Easter dress at Frost Me Baby (See the dress on the Frost Me Baby Blog). We are still looking for the perfect Easter basket...
Bella and I have been planning our easter egg decorating, and what treats we will make on Easter Day. There are several large Easter Egg Hunts in our area... and we must choose one to attend. Sooooo exciting!!
Celebrate fun holidays, and create experiences that your step kids will carry with them for a lifetime. These are the moments that help them to enjoy their lives, and create family traditions!
- Shop for the perfect dress and accessories
- Find a lovely Easter Basket
- Easter Egg patterns and dipping packages
- Plan a fun menu that will tickle their senses with color
- Choose an Easter Egg Hunt in your area
- Coordinate with their friend's parents so they can join in on the Hunt! Always more fun in numbers!
Posted by Kat Johnson at 9:05 PM
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Creating Positive Incentives- Super-Hero-SquadMy 6 year old boy LOVES the Super-Hero-Squad . He can play out all of the characters; Ironman, Captain America, Thor, and Hulk (his favorite at the moment). It's so much fun to watch his imagination grow as he makes up his own story lines, and makes up girl characters for his little sister to play. It's also good fun when she wiggles into one of his Super Hero costumes with the extra muscles... runs downstairs and announces that she is Captain America! He doesn't quite know what to say or how to react... and she is so excited to play with him. It's really quite amusing, and my husband and I always have a little giggle.
To incentivize him for school we buy about 4-5 super hero action figures at a time, and if he gets top scores at school... and he reaches 5 days of outstanding behavior (they are rated daily by their teachers on a number scale of 1-35) he gets to chose a toy to open! He loves this incentive, and so do the teachers. We have seen great improvements in his school work and behaviors since implementing this incentive. We use http://www.Super-Hero-Squad.com to choose which toys he wants to earn, and then they ship them to the door. They have a wide variety of super hero toys to choose from, and it's super easy. Happy toy hunting!
Posted by Kat Johnson at 7:53 AM
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Valentine's Day-Full of Love
I hope everyone had a wonderful Valentine's Day! We had lots of laughter and fun! Bella wanted to help decorate the table and make it special for Daddy, so she spread out pink rose petals all over the table. She also wanted to drink her Sparkling Apple Cider out of champagne glasses... Totally cute and Beautiful! We made personalized heart shaped pizzas, and had a lot of fun in the kitchen. My husband thought he was Luigi... throwing the pizza dough in the air... with LOTS of flour. We were all laughing, and covered in flour! We made great memories, and shared love, food, and fun! Definitely a Valentine's Day to remember!
Posted by Kat Johnson at 7:38 AM
Wednesday, February 13, 2013
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Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Barbie, Tinker Bell, Belle, Ariel, and all the rest of her favorite Disney dolls! They also have customized kids books which she loves!! Super Fun!
Hope you enjoy this website as much at I did: http://FrostMeBaby.com
Hope you enjoy this website as much at I did: http://FrostMeBaby.com
Posted by Kat Johnson at 7:48 AM
Sunday, February 10, 2013
I'm a MONSTER...??
What do you say when your step kids come back from a visit with their mother, and they call you a monster....?
When divorces are ugly, and the kids pay the price of a parent who does not care about their mental wellbeing... only how much she can hurt the other party... what do you do or say when the kids call you a monster?
MAKE IT FUN...or FUNNY for the kids!! Ask them questions...
- What kind of monster am I?
- Am I a cookie monster?
- Am I a chocolate monster?
- Am I a tickle monster?
- Pull out the Tickle Claw (your hand), and tickle them... make them laugh!
- Am I blue?
- Do I have only 1 eye?
- What planet am I from?
Create a different mental tag for them that makes them laugh and associates humor... this will help them deal with the stresses they face, and create a strong bond between you.
NEVER... let me say it again... NEVER let them see how much it upsets you!! Kids want to please whomever they are with, and they do not know how to deal with your anger. So please count to 10 or give yourself a mental anchor to make a funny face or joke, and get them laughing.
Your in it for the long game, and the kids will appreciate your kindness and humor. They will end up having a stronger bond with you, than the hateful parent who is unable to control their emotional state.
Another good rule is to always tell the truth. When a child has a question, I encourage you to tell the truth. NOW... the truth you tell them should not be filled with hateful details. Keep it simple, and kind. Always be KIND!!
Posted by Kat Johnson at 4:47 PM
Things I like to live by: Laugh often, Love with all your heart, and be kind to others. I do my best to impart these to my 2 precious step kids.
My husband and I have had our challenges this year with the ex, and keeping the kids safe. Whew... this has been a full time job all in itself. I never really understood how much time, effort, and emotional trauma goes into dealing with "Baggage ..ie. the ex"... and trust me... I have, like everyone else... "Baggage" of my own too.
I do my best to compartmentalize all of my "Baggage", and this allows me to live my daily life and enjoy the amazing experiences that I have everyday with my husband and step kids. As things arise I deal with them and put them back in their boxes. It's the only way I keep my sanity intact.
I work from home, so when my husband and I were married, I became a full time mom"Step-mom". This has been a blessing and also a very difficult transition trying to make all the time I have, count. Whether it's working on business projects, meetings, or managing two young kids that need lots of attention and love. Oh... not to mention keeping up the house, laundry, and cooking. I have to say... I have a WHOLE new respect for stay-at-home mothers!! My full time job was WAY easier!!!
I've consulted for years, teaching doctors how to run their businesses; HR, communications, software configuration, implementing systems, marketing, how to read a P & L, and a multitude of other things to help them grow their businesses. I also invented an Oral Surgery instrument that will help a lot of doctors and people.
That being said I have taught lots of skills to lots of people, and been very successful. Now.. teaching a child can't be that hard... HA! I used to give people information that they would respectfully take and implement. With kids they are constantly challenging you in every way possible... in your face... all day long. Some of this I find quite amusing, and some of it can begin to wear on you day in and day out. I have managed to keep my good humor and laugh about most things, and remember what a terror I was as a child. My mother was a SAINT!
Professionally, have to apologize to all of the mother's, and step-mothers out there because until you have kids, you do not fully understand the inconveniences they deal with that are NOT their fault as a working parent. I have much more sympathy, and admiration for working parents then I ever did before.
Ok, off my soap box now. More to come later...
Posted by Kat Johnson at 1:49 PM